By: Sevma

Psychologically, love has three units
 Not you, not him, not me
 Not water, not air, not fire
 Not earth, not moon, not sun
 You as the water, come from the earth
 He as the air, appears from the moon
 And I, as the fire, attend from the sun
 Feeling positive intensely
 Interacting face to face
 Telling about interests
 Resisting violence
 Talking about the future
 Whispering secrets
 Developing empathic listening skills
 Negotiating safer sex
 Refashioning relationship
 Having high respect for each other
 Staying together in spite of trouble
 Investing energy, money, possessions, time, thought, and feelings